Why You Get the Love of Your Life



Aries

The reason you walk away from love is because you are too impatient to wait and to play the ‘game’ of love. When you start to like someone, you want to know immediately how the other person feels about you. You want to know what is happening between the two of you. When you like someone, you want things to go as quickly as possible.

You hate those moments in between where you don’t know if you are friends, if you are something else or what you are. You do not find the emotion in those moments and that is where many times you decide to get away from love. You need speed, adrenaline, rhythm. If you don’t get into a kind of anxiety about wanting everything now. You walk away from love before you have a chance, or you go so fast that you can scare the other person. Aries, learn to know how to wait and to trust more in yourself and in the other person. All in due time.

Taurus

The reason you kick love out of your life is because you fight for commitment. You are Taurus and that means you are a bit stubborn. You usually see things only from your point of view and it is difficult for you to change your mind and at least listen to the opinions of others, and that in a relationship is not easy. It can be a detrimental thing to your relationships, Taurus, if you never let your partner express himself and his opinion. And also that little mania you have with commitment also makes you sometimes want to get away from love.

If you see that the other person is not willing to maintain a long-term relationship and simply wants fun, you decide to walk away. If you really want to fall in love, Taurus, you need to lower the level of pride in your life and your level of stubbornness a bit. You have to know, Taurus, that it is allowed to be wrong and that it is also allowed to be a more flexible person. Do not run from love because it can be one of the most beautiful things you will ever live.

Gemini

Gemini, you withdraw love and throw it out of your life because what really matters to you is having fun. The moment you notice that a relationship begins to get serious, you take a step back and stay on the sidelines. It takes a lot for you to commit because you think that if you commit you will be losing a lot of things and you will be losing a lot of people. You are convinced that there is someone else waiting for you, that someone better is going to be around the corner.

You are constantly running away from love because you are afraid of being tied down, locked in a relationship, and losing your life. But, Gemini, you don’t have to kick the love of your life to enjoy it. You have to learn to enjoy stability and everything that your partner can bring you. Being in a relationship is something that can also bring you many things and that you will learn to be a better person with others and with yourself. You might even realize that life as a couple is actually something you like.

Cancer

There are times that you cast the love of your life because you are too insecure to let someone enter your heart. They hurt you so much in the past that right now you don’t feel like having that bad drink again. You’re still heartbroken and until you fix it and it’s back to the same condition as before, you don’t want anyone to get into it again. You don’t want anyone to meet those ghosts from the past and have to fight them. You are the only one who must face them and defeat them. And there are also times that you run away because you meet people who are too superficial and look only at the physical and the appearances and that is not what you want in your life.

You run away when you cannot find a person who is willing to reach out to your heart, to love your defects and to help you with your weaknesses. You run away because you can’t find the perfect person. But, Cancer ... There is no one perfect, we all have our flaws ... Stop worrying so much and let someone make you believe in love again.

Leo

Leo, the reason you expel the love of your life is because you are afraid of having to settle your head and live a routine life. You are a Leo and you know that you are a person with a lot of power. You don’t want to end up with someone who doesn’t deserve you or doesn’t know how to value you. But maybe that’s why you are a bit of a picky person. You leave the bar quite a bit and few people are capable of surpassing you. But, Leo, remember that you do not need someone who exceeds your expectations, if not someone who is able to accept you, value you and love you as you deserve, nothing more.

You will not find anyone perfect, we already let you know. You are going to find people like you, with their pluses, with their minuses, with their virtues and with their fears. Real people, not perfect people who only exist in your thoughts. Leo, do not run away from love so much and try to appreciate and accept others for who they really are. It will be easier for you to find love if you lower your expectations a little and if you are not so demanding.

Virgo

The reason you expel the love of your life, Virgo, is because you quickly find faults and mistakes in relationships. In that aspect, you are quite a hard person with yourself and with others. You can be a very patient person, but you don’t have much stamina. You run away from love because basically because you don’t think you will be able to bear a person.

You run away because you thought you had found a perfect person, but you have realized that you did not. Virgo, you have to start learning to deal with the flaws of others and learn to accept that perfection does not exist and that it is simply in your mind. Even you are not perfect and you know it. If you keep going like this, you’re going to miss out on a lot of wonderful things. Stop concentrating only on the bad, open your mind and let yourself go. Don’t try to control everything, Virgo, don’t try to make everything perfect because it will never be.

Libra

The reason you walk away from love, Libra, is because you are afraid that you will be hurt again. You have been hurt a lot in the past and now you don’t feel like going through there again. You don’t feel like suffering again, basically. That is why you have decided to give up anything that has to do with love to make sure that you will never suffer so much again.

You have decided never to leave your heart in the hands of anyone. You even see yourself forced to give up plans, appointments, people because of that fear that exists in your mind. Give up anyone who tries to get close to you and not because you are not interested, but because you are afraid that your heart will break again. But Libra, you can’t be like this all your life. You cannot continue with that unstoppable fear… You are very strong and you know it.

You have matured, you have grown and thanks to everything you have experienced you will not suffer like that again. Trust others a little more. It is the only way you can find love.

Scorpio

You, Scorpio, walk away from love because you have some other trust problem. You never let anyone get too close because that would be giving them a chance to hit damage. You have a hard time trusting others and even more so when it comes to matters related to your own heart. You walk with heavy feet in these cases because you are afraid that your heart will break.

You are a very passionate and quite sensitive person and that is why you are afraid of suffering. Because you know that it will hurt you more than someone else. But, Scorpio, healthy and good love will never hurt you. You simply have to let people show you who they are and there you choose if a relationship is worth it or not. But at least you need to give those who want to show you their heart a chance.

It’s difficult, but don’t run away, Scorpio. If that person really loves you, they will never hurt you. Also, you will even grow and become much stronger.

Sagittarius

You walk away from love, Sagittarius, because you have very high expectations. You are very idealistic, Sagittarius, and you believe that others are perfect and that relationships are easy to carry. You think that love is something that is lived without complications and you are very far from reality. When you finally decide to date someone for real, you realize that nothing is perfect. That everyone has their flaws and mistakes and that anyone can be wrong. Even in those moments you feel disappointed that people do not meet your expectations. But it’s not the fault of others ... It’s your fault.

You thought it was going to be perfect, but that will never be the case, Sagittarius. There is nothing and no one perfect. Not even you are. You have to stop expecting so much from others, Sagittarius, because then you hit reality on the forehead and it hurts. You have to let others be themselves and not create so many ideals… Try to appreciate others for being who they are.

Capricorn

The reason you miss the love of your life, Capricorn, is because you don’t have time. Or that’s at least the excuse you make. You say that you are too busy with work, or that you want to focus only on yourself. Well, sometimes they are not excuses because it is true that you are a very ambitious person and that you always have many things to do. But if you think about it, Capricorn, you will always have something to do and you will never have time to do anything. But you have to start organizing to make time.

You have to find a space for love in your life, Capri. And you also have to know that love won’t steal your time. Learn to separate your love life with your work. You can also have time for yourself while you go out with someone. You have to be more flexible with schedules and with the way you structure your life. Nothing happens if one day you have to cancel a plan or if you do not have time to do something ... There is always time for everything if you really want to.

Aquarius

The reason you kick out the love of your life, Aquarius, is because you don’t let anyone know how you feel. It is true that you are a very sentimental person, but only from the inside. From doors to outside, you are totally forbidden to express any type of emotion. You hate that others see you as a vulnerable person and you are afraid that they might play on those feelings. And when you realize that you are starting to fall in love with someone, you run away without looking back.

You run away because you start to realize that your feelings could come to light and put you in danger at any moment. But, Aquarius, you have to know that love and feelings can make anyone vulnerable, not just you. And love is always going to make you feel that way, be it now or in the future. You will always be afraid of your feelings, but in the end all this is going to be worth it. I assure you, Aquarius.

Pisces

You walk away from love, Pisces, because you have pretty high expectations. You always believe that love is butterflies, happiness, rose petals and candles. But this is not exactly the case. It may be, but it is also other things. Love is also work, discussions, respect and commitment. And when you realize that love does not meet your expectations and that it is not how you want it to be, you run away. Simply because you think that kind of love is not for you. But, Pisces, you have to start accepting that love is not perfect. That it also has its ups and downs and that nothing happens if you have to argue with your partner.

Arguing does not mean that your relationship is going to end. It’s good to talk about things, both the good and the bad. It’s okay to disagree. You have to find someone who is worth fighting for, arguing and exchanging opinions. You will see how in the end you will be grateful for having gone through all those moments.

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